Winter Date Night


So listen.  The millennials can frolic about in frigid temperatures all scantily clad, but as for me and my house, we go on dates in weather appropriate attire and we’re still sexy.  What does one need for a sexy winter date night look?  If you ask me, I’d say 3 things: an off the shoulder sweater/sweater dress, patterned tights, and boots/booties. I think there is something super sexy about a little shoulder action.   Patterned tights add texture to the look and give him a little peek-a-boo action too. Booties and boots can be sexy, too, especially those of the stiletto persuasion. Extra points for over the knee! A statement coat and cool gloves polish off the look.  See I believe that one can be covered and still sexy, and date night is the perfect time to add a little extra sass.  Bae will thank you! 


Ok. It’s chilly, you’re dressed and looking good, but where do you go? What do you do?  We recently had a fantastic date night where I wore this outfit, and I’ll share the details.  We started out at a local restaurant, Southern Social, but we didn’t get a table like we’d normally do.  Instead, we sat at the bar.  Why?  Sure the bar is a little busier and noisier, but at the bar, you have to sit closer.  You see where I’m going with this??? Sit close.  Speak in each others ears.  Heck, give a few extra pecks.  Sometimes date nights can get a little predictable, you know? So why not do something a little different.


While at the bar, we grabbed a couple of glasses of wine and some appetizers to share.  Pssst! Use this opportunity to “share” to your advantage.  Feed each other and make it sexy.  When was the last time you did that???  Ok, let’s keep going.  We finished the pregame at the bar and headed to a live music show at a local jazz spot.  We purchased VIP tickets, which included a couch/loveseat as our seating for the evening.  And let me just tell you, that was conducive to lots of cuddling and closeness, giggles and goofiness.  It’s date night, right? So take full advantage. And what’s a date night without a little dancing.  Slow.  Close. Whew! When was the last time you did that? There’s a theme here.

_MG_1214.: Photos : Kim Thomas:.

Location: The Central Station Hotel (Memphis)

Dress : Southern Muse (old) | Tights : Macy’s (old) | Booties : Victoria’s Secret (back when they sold shoes and clothes) | Coat & Gloves : The Limited (Scandal Collection)

After that, we ended the night in the lobby of a new hotel to lounge and partake in a little more date nighting because clearly we didn’t want it to end.  We grabbed one last cocktail and Uber’d home.   I felt sexy.  He loved it.  There were plenty of laughs, good music, and most importantly, connecting.  The night was lovely. When was your last date night?  If it’s been too long, fix that sis.  





  1. Belinda
    January 30, 2020 / 11:52 am

    Love EVERYTHING about this look.

    • Quaneshia
      January 30, 2020 / 12:20 pm

      Thanks Belinda!

  2. April Cunningham
    January 30, 2020 / 12:43 pm

    Love, Love LOVE this look!

    • Quaneshia
      January 30, 2020 / 7:41 pm

      Thank you so much!!

  3. Sharonda
    January 30, 2020 / 4:36 pm

    Great read and awesome look! #keepitnew

    • Quaneshia
      January 30, 2020 / 7:41 pm

      Thanks so much! Gotta keep it fresh!

  4. Marlon Gentry
    February 21, 2020 / 11:11 am

    Let me take the time to acknowledge all that you do for this blog. It’s encouraging, uplifting, and educational. I learn about fashion, social engagement, and family life from a mature woman with a youthful perspective. I am able to incorporate your posts into how I communicate and interact with my wife. I also use these posts for outfit inspirations that evolve into purchases for her, lol. Your transparency in your fashion ensembles make all the difference in helping others learn how be “Styled by Q”. Thank You!

    • Quaneshia
      February 25, 2020 / 6:08 am

      Oh wow! Thank you so much!! Your male perspective means a lot! I truly appreciate your kind words!

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